Motherhood Reflections: Meghan Markle’s Emotional Bond with Princess Lilibet

Meghan Markle has always been open about the joys and challenges of motherhood, but during a visit to Nigeria in May 2024, she shared a particularly touching moment that captured the depth of her relationship with her daughter, Princess Lilibet. While on a humanitarian tour with Prince Harry, Meghan shared a story that highlighted both the literal and figurative ways a mother and child see each other.

As the Duchess spoke with students at Lightway Academy, she explained how her two-year-old daughter had recently made a comment that resonated deeply with her. “Our daughter, Lili, she’s much tinier than all of you,” Meghan began, clearly enjoying the engagement with the young children. “A few weeks ago, all she could see when she looked at me was her reflection in my eyes.” Lilibet’s innocent observation soon led to a profound moment for Meghan, as Lilibet said, “Mama, I see myself in you.”

At first, Meghan thought Lilibet was just stating the obvious—her reflection in her mother’s eyes—but upon further reflection, the Duchess realized the deeper implications of those words. “I started thinking,” Meghan said, “‘Yes, I do see myself in you, and you see me in you.’” It was a powerful realization that, as a mother, you leave a lasting imprint on your children, just as they do on you.

During the visit, Meghan and Harry joined the children in singing, dancing, and games—activities that clearly resonated with Meghan as she noted that dancing is one of Lili’s favorite things. “That’s Lili’s favorite class,” Meghan said, laughing. “Maybe it’s all the hopping around.”

The tour in Nigeria gave Meghan an opportunity to connect with children on a deeper level, while also reflecting on the significance of her role as a mother. It’s clear that moments like these, shared with her children, are what ground her and help her navigate the complexities of motherhood.