For ten long years, Cheryl Murray quietly endured a painful, growing lump on her foot—something she kept hidden not just from doctors, but even from the man she loved. What started as a minor, nagging issue eventually became impossible to ignore. When she finally moved in with her partner David, the secret could no longer be kept.
The swelling on her foot, which she had dismissed for years as nothing more than a torn ligament, turned out to be something far more serious and frightening: cancer. Cheryl, a woman from Glasgow, Scotland, first noticed the lump on her foot when she was just 15. It was uncomfortable, but not alarming. After visiting a doctor, she was told it was likely related to an injury and was advised to undergo physiotherapy. The assumption was that she had damaged a ligament after a fall. That explanation seemed to make sense, and she followed the advice, hoping the discomfort would pass.
But the lump never went away. Over the next decade, it only got worse. It grew in size, and every time she accidentally knocked it, the pain was sharp and intense. Eventually, it swelled to the size of a golf ball. Still, Cheryl kept it a secret—even after she began dating David. Embarrassment held her back from seeking further medical advice, and she continued to convince herself it wasn’t worth worrying about. “I was ashamed of it,” Cheryl later told the Daily Mail. That shame became a barrier to treatment that nearly cost her everything. Everything changed when she and David moved in together.
It wasn’t long before David noticed something was wrong. When he asked her about the lump, she repeated the story she had clung to for years—that it was just torn ligaments. But David wasn’t convinced. He could tell something more serious was going on and urged her to go back to the doctor. That encouragement may have saved her life. After her visit, Cheryl was quickly sent for an MRI, an X-ray, and a series of biopsies. The results were devastating. The lump on her foot was diagnosed as a sarcoma, a rare and aggressive form of cancer. Her doctor gave her a heartbreaking ultimatum: in order to stop the cancer from spreading, her lower leg would need to be amputated as soon as possible. “I was hysterical,” Cheryl recalled. “I was so stunned I couldn’t speak.
I felt like I had been punched in the face twice on one day.” Amid the shock and grief of that news, David remained by her side, supporting her through every terrifying moment. And in a beautiful, life-affirming twist, he proposed to her just weeks before her scheduled amputation. Cheryl said his love and support gave her the strength to face what lay ahead. “He provided me motivation and the willpower to continue,” she shared. Sarcoma, the rare cancer Cheryl faced, is a form of cancer that originates in the body’s connective tissues, such as muscles, fat, nerves, tendons, and blood vessels. According to the Cleveland Clinic, sarcomas can develop anywhere in the body but are most commonly found in the arms or legs. There are several types, including osteosarcoma, which affects the bones; chondrosarcoma, which starts in cartilage; and Ewing’s sarcoma, which begins in bone marrow. Because the symptoms of sarcoma can be vague or mimic other conditions, early diagnosis is often difficult. Common warning signs include persistent swelling, chronic pain, lumps or deformities under the skin, and changes in mobility or walking patterns. Cheryl’s experience serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of trusting your instincts and not ignoring persistent or unusual symptoms. “If I hadn’t shown him the lump, I probably would’ve ignored it even longer,” she admitted. Her story underscores the critical need to listen to your body and seek second opinions when something doesn’t feel right. She was lucky—her life was saved because she finally sought help. If you’re living with unexplained pain, swelling, or changes in your body, don’t wait. See a doctor. If the first answer doesn’t sit well with you, keep pushing until you get one that does. Your health is worth it. Cheryl’s courage and David’s unwavering support offer a lesson in love, strength, and the life-saving power of speaking up. Share her story—you never know who needs to hear it.