More than thirty years ago, Hollywood’s golden couple, Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman, made headlines when they adopted two children—first their daughter Isabella in 1992, followed by their son Connor. At the time, the pair was considered one of the most glamorous and influential couples in the entertainment industry. Their marriage, their movie careers, and their growing family all seemed to paint a picture of perfection.
However, when the couple divorced in 2001, the story took a more complicated turn, especially when it came to their roles as parents. Connor was just six years old when Cruise and Kidman split. Following the divorce, the court granted joint custody, expecting both parents to remain active in their children’s lives. But as time passed, it became clear that Nicole Kidman’s presence began to fade from her children’s day-to-day lives. Balancing a busy film career, constant travel, and high-profile commitments, she was often away, which made it difficult for her to remain consistently involved.
At the same time, Tom Cruise’s strong commitment to the Church of Scientology became a more dominant factor in the children’s upbringing. Nicole reportedly struggled with the church’s growing influence on her children and found herself feeling helpless against it. She’s said to have tried shielding Isabella and Connor from Scientology, but ultimately felt outnumbered and unable to change the course of their involvement. Over time, her relationship with both children became increasingly distant. While she has expressed her love for them in past interviews, she has also acknowledged that her connection with them is not what it once was.
After her split from Cruise, Nicole went on to remarry, tying the knot with country singer Keith Urban. Together, they built a quiet and happy life away from the spotlight and welcomed two daughters of their own. This new chapter in her life seemed to solidify her separation—not only from Cruise, but from the family they had once created together. Meanwhile, Cruise continued to raise Isabella and Connor largely within the Scientology community. Now adults, the two siblings have largely kept their lives private, staying far from the Hollywood spotlight that once followed their every move.
Isabella now lives in London and works in the arts, while Connor resides in Florida and has pursued work as a DJ and enjoys deep-sea fishing. Their quiet lifestyles are a sharp contrast to the celebrity world they were born into, and both seem content living outside the limelight. Recently, however, for the first time in two years, the two were seen together in public. Photographers captured rare images of the siblings, reigniting interest and curiosity from fans around the world. Many were surprised by their grown-up appearances and how much they had changed over the years. The photos also raised familiar questions about their relationship with Nicole and how much contact they maintain, if any. Despite speculation, neither Isabella nor Connor has spoken publicly about their mother in detail. Reports suggest they remain close with Cruise, and their continued association with Scientology appears to be a strong influence in their lives. Nicole, on the other hand, has respected their privacy and chosen not to discuss them often in interviews. The rare sighting of Isabella and Connor served as a poignant reminder of how complex family dynamics can be—especially under the constant scrutiny of fame. While Cruise’s second marriage also ended in divorce, Nicole has found stability in her relationship with Urban and their daughters. Still, the emotional distance between her and her adopted children remains one of the more quietly heartbreaking elements of her story. For fans who once followed every step of this once fairytale family, seeing Isabella and Connor as adults serves as both a dose of nostalgia and a window into how life can evolve far away from the spotlight.